Amidst growing concerns about social media’s impact on society, many argue that platforms like X (formerly Twitter) contribute to the deterioration of public discourse, spread misinformation, and increase societal divisions. The digital age has transformed the media landscape, often at the expense of quality journalism, leaving individuals with a narrow and sometimes misleading view of the world.
The media industry, which I have been a part of for over 20 years, has faced significant challenges due to the internet. The quality and sustainability of journalism have suffered, and the overwhelming influx of information from various sources often leaves people poorly informed. Critics argue that mainstream media is biased or of low quality, but these issues may be an unavoidable byproduct of the digital era.
While social media can negatively affect mental health and promote divisive behavior, individuals can mitigate these effects through mindful engagement. By adjusting how we interact with social media, we can transform its impact from negative to enlightening, using it as a catalyst for personal growth and change.
My Experience with X
Despite the title suggesting otherwise, I have not always been a model of Christian behavior on X. The platform has exposed my flaws, often bringing out the worst in people, including myself. Social media can easily turn kind individuals into reactionaries, as I have witnessed firsthand.
X has sometimes led me to engage in unproductive arguments and exposed me to harsh, often abusive discourse. For instance, after challenging some aggressive rhetoric, an anonymous user responded, “Having read your output, with the utmost respect, you can f*** off Heather” – without the asterisks.
However, X’s ability to provoke has unexpectedly led to personal spiritual growth when combined with prayer and the teachings of Jesus.
Early Engagement
Initially, I engaged in heated debates on Twitter, particularly with anonymous accounts like ‘Satan de Sade.’ Reflecting on these interactions, I realize they were largely unproductive, filled with insults rather than constructive discourse. The anonymity of online interactions can make it easier to be rude, but I now strive for friendly and constructive discussions.
My negative experiences on Twitter have driven me to reflect on my behavior. Jesus’s words in Matthew 5:22 serve as a warning against anger and insults: “if you are even angry with someone, you are subject to judgement! If you call someone an idiot, you are in danger of being brought before the court. And if you curse someone, you are in danger of the fires of hell” (Matthew 5:22, NLT).
Through prayer, I have explored the roots of my argumentative behavior, realizing it stems from anger and pride. This awareness has prompted me to seek change and bring my shortcomings to God in prayer.
Tribal Tendencies
Social media makes it easy to become tribal, aligning with groups that often disregard reason and kindness. Regardless of the group—be it political, religious, or ideological—there is a tendency to unite against an “other.” This tribalism is often fueled by a sense of moral superiority.
Throughout my journey, I have experienced shifts in beliefs and affiliations, from liberal to conservative and non-religious to Christian. Despite these changes, the temptation to feel superior to others remains, manifesting in criticism and dismissal of opposing views.
Through prayer and reflection, I have recognized this tendency and strive to move beyond tribalism, seeking love and understanding for all groups. Jesus’s words in Matthew 7:3-5 offer guidance: “Why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own?… First get rid of the log in your own eye; then you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend’s eye.”
By focusing on self-improvement rather than criticizing others, I have become more aware of my own flaws and the shared vices among different groups. Christians have a unique opportunity for redemption and correction through prayer, allowing us to resist tribalism and seek Christ’s love in our hearts.
While I still struggle at times, X has helped me learn more about love and the teachings of Christ, particularly through the Sermon on the Mount. With these lessons, our online interactions can improve, and Christ can redeem even the most challenging environments like X.
Heather Tomlinson is a freelance Christian writer. Find more of her work at https://heathertomlinson.substack.com or via X (twitter) @heathertomli
This article was originally written by www.christiantoday.com
